One safe person

Finding, testing and keeping one relationship

Social support is among the strongest modifiable predictors of outcome after trauma. One person, not a network — the bar has to be reachable from where you are standing.

01

Think of one name

That is the whole task today.

02

Test in small pieces

Tell them something small first, and see how they hold it.

03

You do not owe
anyone your story

Not all of it, and not on anyone's timetable but your own.

04

If there is nobody
yet

Peer groups, warmlines and communities count. So, eventually, does the relationship you build with yourself.

Evidence & Clinical Literature

How strong is the evidence? Brewin, Andrews & Valentine, meta-analysis of risk factors for PTSD, 2000.